This is regarding LGBTQ... I'm a 14 year old girl and I think I'm into all genders, (pansexual) and I want to express myself freely. There's just one little problem...I live with my grandparents. My grandparents are the biggest homophobes you will ever meet, and they are verbally abusive at times. I want to work up the courage to tell them, but they are in the middle of making a will and stuff, and last time I was being "disrespectful" they threatened to take me off the will. Which leaves me in a very tight spot. I only reaching out on here because they don't monitor this site. What do you guys think I should do?