How do i find good freinds that arent rude

Always be kind and avoid arguments or any sort of conflict at all costs! Recognize the red flags and leave those friends if you notice more than 3 red flags within a short period of time (say, a week or two) and more than 6 red flags over a longer period of time.

If they’re always talking about themselves and they don’t ask questions about you, they’re not interested in being your friend.
Hope this helps :)

Have you tried using hellotalk?