How does american culture define "femininity" and "masculinity? " are these definitions universal, or do masculine and feminine ideals vary from place to place and over time?

Feminine: caring, nurturing, compassionate, soft spoken, cooperative, focused on appearance, dainty.

Masculine: aggressive, tough, strong, leader, commanding, and risk-takers.

The gender expectations fairly are universal, but the expectations themselves vary across time and place.

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