You grew up in a family that avoids swearing in public, so when you hear it in a speech you find it hard not to feel as if the speaker is being extremely inappropriate. this is which component of the hurier model?

I believe the answer is interpreting Component.

In HURIER model, interpreting refers to the process when you assign a certain meaning to every message that you received.
In the case above, Due to the habit that imposed by your family to refrain using bad words, your psychological state is conditioned to associate someone who uses that bad words as 'Bad'.