Males were sent to military  school at age 7 - Sparta.
Women didn't enjoy the  same rights as male  citizens and couldn't  own property. - Athens.
Boys received formal  education in addition  to military training.  - Athens.
Women were educated  and didn't perform  household duties. - Sparta.
Explanation:
Although Athens was regarded as a cradle of democracy, women in Sparta had more rights. They could own property, were educated and even received military training. On the other side, boys in Sparta were focused more on physical education, while in Athens intellectual development was in the focus.