Suppose harold is in a long-term, romantic relationship but chooses to flirt with someone else. he experiences dissonance because he sees himself as loving and trustworthy, and his flirtatious behavior is incongruent with that self-perception. according to research on self-affirmation theory, how could harold reduce his dissonance? (a) he could say, "hey, at least i'm doing good work volunteering at the homeless shelter" (assuming that being a good volunteer is important to him). (b) he could confess to his romantic partner about what he did. (c) he could say to himself, "i'm really an idiot, i shouldn't do that again."(d) he could say to himself, "i guess i'm not all that trustworthy a person."