What women wrote about women's rights and was married to a future president? ( im thinking abigail adams? )

Yes! It's Abigail Adams. 

She said "remember the ladies" to her husband - John Adams - on March 31, 1776.

According to History.com: "In a letter dated March 31, 1776, Abigail Adams writes to her husband, John Adams, urging him and the other members of the Continental Congress not to forget about the nation’s women when fighting for America’s independence from Great Britain."

Its a and i dont acually know