How do you encourage people to have confidence

Turn your negative thoughts to positive thoughts. As you pay attention to your negative thoughts, turn them around to positive thoughts. This may take the form of positive affirmations, [5] such as "I am going to try it," "I can be successful if I work at it," or "people will listen to me." Start with just a few positive thoughts a day.

Make them feel that they are strong and that that the negative ideas other mean people say to you dont help them in nothing.And you become more powerful.:-) :-)

Because you get to live without any hoses bothering u