People say that holding on to the past makes you weak but it doesn't. it actually makes you stronger. Losing people, being a victim of sexual harassments, doing crimes. Have those things be there because when you think back to them you wanna think, "i don't want to be in that position. I don't wanna feel the way i did. because what i felt is not a good feeling" use those thought to get you threw you day. Make it push you to become a better you. to many people are losing there life because people push them over or initially make them feel weak. You got to be the one that stops that. Do it for your self and other people.