i told my friend something and told her not to tell anyone she went behind my back and told someone anyway. i got in a lot of trouble and keep making the same mistake by telling her more secrets. My sister and i are arguing every day non stop and she always says hurtful stuff. my twin brothers just got out of juvenile and they are on a monitor they aren't suppose to have friends over but they do. My grandparents are always arguing or dealing with my brothers so they don't have time for us. my mom doesn't even notice us. my younger sister is the only one i can talk to and she is sad that her dad left when she was 4 or 5.what should i do