Why is conflict confrontation not healthy for a sustaining relationship

Conflict occurs in all relationships and is dealt with in a respectful, productive manner in healthy relationships.

"Confrontation" may be unhealthy if it entails disrespectful or unproductive communication such as yelling, blaming or name calling. These tactics should be left out of any conflict and the focus should be on understanding each other's feelings and needs, and then finding solutions that meet everyone's needs.

Where conflict usually goes wrong is when someone is assinged blame (then expected to apologize) instead of accepting each other's perspective and finding a way everyone can have whatever is needed.

the difference between an explicit and implicit meaning is that the explicit meaning of a poem is that the detail is exactly defined. nothing is left to interpretation. an implicit meaning is an implied meaning. kabir's poetry is both explicit and implicit in that it can be interpreted on different levels. the explicit meaning leaves nothing to interpretation while the implicit meaning leaves lots open to interpretation. an example of this is found in the poem "rumi and the spiritual lover". 

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