Which fallacy is evident in this sentence? either we attack when our enemies least expect it, or we prepare to be completely destroyed. ad hominem red herring false dilemma slippery slope

Using the ideas in these sentences the reader can most likely conclude that the father 1.enjoys surprising his wife with news. 2.is easily provoked into over-reacting 3.does not hold high regard for ojukwu. 3.does not respect his wife’s political views. :