When you meet new people your age, what interests you about them? (not question, it is a title)

questions (need answer)
which one of these qualities would you want to be judge by?
which onenof these qualities would you not want to be judge by?

1. the way they dress
2. their grades in school
3. the amount of money they have
4. the kind of possenssions they have
5. the way they talk
6. thier physical appearance
7. where they live in town
8. who their friends are
9. how they treat their friends
10. where they hang out
11. their ethnic background
12. their hobbies and interests
13. their sense of humor
14. their athletic abilities