Why is barbara holland not in favour of having plural children

The essay of Barbara Holland speaks in favor of having one child so that parents can have more peace, time for themselves, and control over the child. Many children can have various demands, they develop separately, and this can rob parents of their time, privacy, and comfort. When there is one child, parents outnumber the child and can dedicate themselves more to personal self-development.

Explanation:

Barbara Holland claims that when there is more than one child in the family they instantly outnumber the parents, and therefore can’t be under good control, discipline, and taught manners. There are more problems and obligations that parents have to handle.

Parents can never be comfortable nor provide time for themselves. They are robbed of privacy, time for conversation, and their marriage can be affected by this. Parents won’t have the privilege to develop themselves as individuals.

Holland claims every child will develop it’s “own culture” and want separate things and have individual demands. They become “counterculture” in the family, in contrast to parents. Parents have to satisfy their demands and accept their conditions, instead of otherwise.

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