How are love and affection portrayed in in memoriam a h h by alfred ,lord tennyson

This touching poem was written under the influense of Tennyson beloved friend’s death, and in these two quatrains we can see expressing of love and difficulty handling with author’s loss.

I hold it true, whate'er befall;   I feel it when I sorrow most;'Tis better to have loved and lostThan never to have loved at all.Nor could I weary, heart or limb,When mighty Love would cleave in twainThe lading of a single pain,And part it, giving half to him.