The experimentally measured nitrogen-nitrogen bond length is slightly longer than a typical nitrogen-nitrogen triple bond and the nitrogen-oxygen bond length is slightly longer than a regular nitrogen-oxygen double bond. explain these observations based on the three possible resonance structures and your conclusion above about the most stable resonance structure.

it can be observed without changing the identity of the object.

it depends on what substance you're talking about as well as many other factors. in quantum mechanics, the observation of particles affects the observers ability to measure certain properties. for example: you can know the velocity of a particle, but you can't know it's position; or you can know it's position, but not it's velocity. it's like trying to find out where a grain of sand is by throwing other grains of sand at it. once you find out where it is, it's been moved. it's also like trying to find an answer to the question of whether or not a tree falling in a forest makes a sound if nobody is there to hear it. paradoxically, the only way to find out is to be there and hear it.