Which of the following statements is the best way to state your position in a conflict? a. “i am concerned you aren’t telling people the truth about me.” b. “i feel betrayed by what was said about me.” c. “you aren’t telling me what you tell other people.” d. “you need to let me know what you think about me to my face.”

a. “I am concerned you aren’t telling people the truth about me.”

Explanation:

The above sentence seems to be the most appropriate answer. And you are explaining here your stand and not panicking. However, when you say you are betrayed, you are panicking. And by the third you mean, you don't know what has been said about you, and this is unprofessional. And the same issue is with d. option. And hence, the correct option is a.