A newlywed couple was having trouble resolving their marital disputes. The husband felt like he was trying to solve all the problems because his wife would not take him seriously during their discussions and would do something else like cleaning dishes. So, they decided that they would have a "meeting" to discuss issues whenever they arose. The meeting would be at a time where they would shut out all distractions and discuss the situation until they find a solution. What is the paramount goal in this situation?