ok hey guys apparently, my mom changed the passcode to MY phone last night and she plus put messages off of the lock screen and we woke up this morning and i was trying to get on but i didn't know it and i heard ding ding ding my friends were texting me but i cant see them because she got it off of lock screen so i asked my mom and she said u uh i forgot and so she tried to do a passcode and it disabled for an hour then 2 hours then 3 hours and so we waited and she did it again and she totally forgot it so she asked my dad and he never wrote the passcode that they did down so now i cant get on the phone and it says to Connect to Computer to reset and delete the whole iPhone setup so now i cant text my friends at all and we cant get ahold of anyone and y this is awful now we have to delete the whole iphone and idk if my messages will still be on there so y this is bad